When you hear the word “navigate” what comes to mind? Steering something physical like a car to a desired destination? Or something intangible like a relationship, a challenging task, or emotions? I think our answer is influenced by the way our brain is wired as well as by what’s going on in our life. I’ll get to that below.
A partial definition of NAVIGATE from the Cambridge dictionary says, “… to FIND a direction across, along, or over an area…” (emphasis mine) To FIND means to look for, seek, find options, be intentional.
So, in keeping it real, here is an area where I’m struggling to navigate. Where I’m looking to FIND a direction across, along or over so I can arrive at my desired destination:
Navigating how to embrace the blessing and joy of being 65 (so many blessings) and see those in the crinkled skin and age spots and physical shifts that come with time. Navigating how to revamp my closet to simplify dressing nice while respecting my age yet avoiding the “trying to look younger” and the “old and frumpy” mindsets. Navigating the truth that “Age is just a number” (which it is) alongside the cultural message that growing old is bad.
My sister shared a quote she recently heard, “You have never been this old before and you’ll never be this young again.” Hmm… At first, I frowned. But looking closer I saw it differently. I think my “direction across” lies in treasuring the gift of wisdom gained through the experiences in my first 65 years and knowing the richness of that wisdom will reveal new opportunities never presented before or were lost in the busyness of younger years. I can look with expectancy to the joys and adventures and treasure of special moments yet to come. I can remember that each season in life is new and I’ve navigated through most of them pretty well so far. And above all, I know who holds me in the palm of His hand and whose Spirit guides us in the things to come.
I suspect the real struggle is between my mind and my heart. What to hold on to and what to let go of. And I suspect that is often where our struggles lie. Do you relate?
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I totally relate to your comments. When we are young we are noticed, respected and you feel needed. The older you get the more the world kind of ignores you. (I don’t like that). I read this statement in a book the other day — “But alas, I am nothing to her but an old lady. One’s reward to marching through the decades is a gradual process of erasure”. Very sad that our culture doesn’t value wisdom and take the time to know older people more.
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Thanks for your comments, Linda. Oh I think we still have so much to offer and you are a great example of that my friend!! Maybe it’s that we in this season know and appreciate the value of each other better than those who have not arrived here yet. I appreciate you and your love for Jesus, life and others!
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